How to Tell if a Girl Online Likes You

It is a common opinion on the internet that women are impossible to figure out. Are women complicated as they seem? Many men will ask themselves, “How can I really tell if she likes me?”

Men everywhere don’t understand the signals a woman shows when they’re interested in a man. So, we compiled a list of behaviors to watch for, so you finally know if that girl you’ve been talking to for the last few weeks wants to be something more or wants to be a friend. 

This list will also contain behaviors that show if a person, man or woman, is not interested in a relationship or friendship with you. They may want someone to entertain them until they move on. 

Don’t Mistake Politeness for Attraction

Before you head into the wild and tiring world of online dating, take a step back and evaluate any encounters with women where you were sure she was attracted to you, only to find out that she only wanted to be friends. 

This mistake happens because many men think female politeness is the same as female attraction. But women have higher expectations put on them to be more polite and friendly than men. Society tells women that they must be more polite, open, and kinder than their male counterparts. 

So, the next time you talk to a girl and think she is sending out signals of attraction, ask someone who knows her if she is like that with everyone.

Remembers What You Say

A man talking to a woman on a date

Telling others details about our lives is an intimate and private act. We cannot talk to some people because they won’t listen to us or remember what we tell them. 

Nobody likes it when they have to repeat themselves repeatedly because their so-called friend can’t remember the details of their life. Well, all of us forget some of the details others tell us from time to time. If someone can’t even remember what you said 5 minutes ago, they may not be your true friend. 

But a woman who truly likes you is interested in what you say. They will actively pay attention, ask questions to clarify what you said, and ask you to repeat yourself if they don’t understand something. An interested girl wants to understand you and your daily life, no matter how boring you think your life is.

This behavior is also a great way to know if your friends care about you. 

Texts You Often

People who are interested in someone will go out of their way to interact with them. If you text her, she will text you back whenever she can. But this rule does not mean that she will instantly text you back every time you text her. 

Remember that people have to work, don’t always have their phones on them, and have busy lives. So, it is unrealistic to expect a text back within 5 minutes of every text you sent. But if she texts you back often and you never have to wonder where she has been for a few days, she is interested in you.

She Will Video Chat With You

Young smiling woman having a video call using laptop at night

In this modern age, a video chat is a much more intimate activity than texting and calling. When a girl video chats with you, it means she wants to add another layer of intimacy to your relationship and wants to see how you are in person. 

It’s not enough to text and call anymore. She wants to see your face, hear your voice, and have a more natural conversation. Besides, how you act through video chat can indicate how you’ll be in person.

Sends You Photos of Her

If a girl likes you, she will send you a great-looking photo of herself. Now, this doesn’t mean that you should ask for a photo. She wants you to have a great picture of her so you can look at it anytime. After she sends you one photo of herself, expect some more that are funnier and like less-Instagram. 

If you ask for a photo and she sends one back, that doesn’t mean she likes you. Some women are afraid of saying no to a man because they’re worried he will lash out at her. I’m not saying that you’re going to lash out if she doesn’t send you a photo, but we both know that some real creeps in this world instantly change their tone and personality the second they don’t get what they want. 

One minute they’re smiling and making jokes with the girl, but when she doesn’t give him what he wants, he immediately starts to call her names and says how she will never find a nice guy like him. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, you should visit the Reddit subreddit called R/niceguys

But be warned, spending a few minutes on this subreddit will make you want to wash your eyeballs.  

What to Do if a Girl Is Attracted to You

A young couple having a dating downtown

Congratulations, a girl attracted to is also drawn to you! Beers and champagne for everybody! Now, you must make the first move and ask her out on a date. The best way to do this is to ask her out via a private message. 

Tell her that you think she is a great person, you want something more than just friendship, and you’d like to take her out on a date. Please don’t ask her through a public message on discord, an online dating forum, or through a post on Facebook. Always ask women out on dates privately, so they don’t feel pressured to say yes or no. 

Once she says yes, find a day where both of you have time off and then choose the restaurant that she likes. And please, please don’t wear just a t-shirt and jeans. If she’s going to do her makeup and hair, then you must dress well and style your hair too. 

What to Do if a Girl Is Not Attracted to You

Once you figure out that the girl you’re talking to is not interested in you romantically, you have one or two choices. 

Your first choice is to accept it and either become her friend without any sexual expectations and go back onto the online dating scene to look for a new romantic interest. 

The second option is to get mad and complain that no woman wants you, then become her friend and try to hit on her every chance you get. This option is not only pathetic, but it is also disrespectful to the woman you’re interested in and to yourself. Don’t go down this road. You don’t want to be this guy.

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