Step One: Make Some Preparation for the First Date

Keep yourself in good mood and don't be too utilitarian about the outcome of the date. Prepare some lighthearted, witty topics to bring the two of you closer so that you can talk more with each other. Then, prepare the equipment according to the contents of your previous chatting, and decide a suitable date place together. Remember to arrive at the place early, as being late is a sign of great disrespect.

Step Two: Start Conversations Irrelevant to Marriage, Such as Work, Life Experience, Interests, etc.

The process of chatting can deepen your understanding of each other and prove if you have shared topic to talk about, which is a prerequisite for your future life. You may leave some space in your conversation. For instance, while you are talking about your hobbies, you might say “maybe we can go cycling or play badminton someday” when mentioned your favorite sports.

Step Three: Prepare a Meaningful Ending After the Offline Date

At the end of the day, we need to have more conversations on social media, for example, "Are you home?" or "It was really nice to chat with you." Then take a look at their social circle and pick up topics to talk about. It conveys your interest and attention to her, which can improve the impression you leave on her. After all, meeting offline is only the first step, and more meetings are needed to help open the door to love.