1 Browse the Gay Section of the Bookstore 

This is a low-key way of determining who is gay or at least gay-friendly, and they won't overreact if you tell them you're interested. Look for a bookstore with a cafe or reading area where the staff won't mind you staying for a while. If you are lucky, you can even find a gay bookstore in your city. There are many gay bookstores in different places, such as A Good Day Bookstore in Toronto, Outlet Bookstore in Atlanta, Giovanni's Room in Philadelphia, and I'm Gay Bookstore in London.

2 Participate in Activities Organized for Homosexuals

Using the websites (such as Meetup. com) to get in touch with other members of the local gay community, all of whom want to go out to do something interesting and Platonic. In this way, you can keep in touch with gay men with common interests, which is also a good foundation for a relationship. Stress can be reduced by moving in groups. You'll also have more time to meet someone before you start dating. As a reward, even if no one in the team is interested in you, you can still enjoy the joyfulness brought by sailing, hiking, camping, concerts, dancing, etc. 

3 Join the Local Gay Community

The local gay community has so great power that even if you don't find anyone interested there currently, you may find that some people in there may be friends of the people you are interested in in the future. During this period, participation will enable you to meet new friends and know more about local homosexuality ( It will give you a surprise if you live in a small remote rural area or seemingly isolated place).