1. Control Your Emotions
How to manage a good relationship? The first thing you should keep in mind is to try to control your emotions when you have a quarrel with your mate. Don’t lose your temper over trifles and make irreparable mistakes on a whim.
In fact, many people may make false moves in relationship, and sometimes it will break your lover’s heart inadvertently. Most of the time, no one really cares about the right or wrong, they just need an attitude from the other party. So, attempt to tame your temper and solve problems with a clam mind, in this way, you may get different results.
2. Be Courageous to Admit Mistakes or Defeats
Some people believe that admitting mistakes or defeats is embarrassing. They would rather keep in silence than make an apology to the other party, which leads to the end of their relationship. Which one is more important? Your face or your love? You got to know this clearly. After all, you can’t have your cake and eat it. Try to keep a balance between tension and relaxation in love, and then it will reduce a lot of unnecessary friction and boost your relationships to a better direction.
3. Avoid Silent Treatment
Many girls will make the same mistake that leave your boys alone and refuse further communication after a quarrel. You wish that he can reflect on himself, but turn out to be a huge disappointment. Such behaviors often brings more cracks to your relationship.
Boys don't have the same delicate mind as girls, since they cannot understand the implication of your words. Also, they can't figure out your body languages. Long-term silent treatment will only exhaust their patience and push your lover away from you.
4. Refuse to Bring up the Past
I don't know what do you think, but in my opinion, it's really hurtful. No one is born to make no mistake. It's right behavior to let the bygones be bygones. If you always love to dig up the past in an argument, the possible result waiting for is break-up.
5. Being a Giver and Cherisher
Love is like a balance, only both of you make efforts can your relationship keep healthy and last long. Remember that love is a matter of two people. Besides, you need cherish what the other party has done for you cause he/she did them out of love.