Topic One: Siblings
In the beginning, girls will define you subjectively, which is because they have to build an image of you in their mind before truly know you. She will wonder what kind of person you are and analyze your image by your eloquence, dress, and behaviors unconsciously. One common topic you could chat on the first date to get to know each other is siblings. Talking about siblings is beneficial to enhance the mutual understanding and enliven the atmosphere. What’s more, it is easier to get her trust after sharing your family background.
Topic Two: Friends
Talk about your friends. Maybe you are not familiar with them, but she will be happy to share with you, including why they became friends, when and where they meet, and so on. At the same time, you could find the common part of her friends. So, just try to be a good listener.
Topic Three: the Latest Films
She may think you are a busybody if you gossip about others, but it is advisable to have conversations about the latest films or TV shows. Maybe you have the same taste in movies, then there is a big chance you have a second date. Of course, be careful when talking about actors, and avoid making negative comments before she made any comment.
Topic Four: Work
Generally speaking, work is an essential part for everyone. A person, who is diligent and aspiring to achieve his life goals, will be fascinated once talking to others about their work. Remember that aviod keeping talking all the time, or else your partner may feel bored. You can invite the other one to share hers. Don't act like a one-man show.