1. Remember His Name When You Meet for the First Time
For most people, it needs a huge effort, but it's worth to remember his name if you want him to fall in love with you. When doing the introduction, you could memorize his name and repeat it in the later conversation. Repeating someone's name is not only helping you memorize the person, but also could draw his attention. The more times you repeat someone's name, the more likely the person will feel that you like him and he will be enthusiastic about you.
2. Talk about Topics Your Mate Interested in
If you mate is an athletic boy, talk about the games last night or the rapid rise of a new team. If you are together with a group of amateurs, you could ask about their hobbies and make comments on them, including fishing, knitting, mountaineering, movies and so on.
No one wants you to be an expert. Sometimes you can build harmonious interpersonal relationship by asking questions. Some people like to talk and explain their interests, it would be better if you could be a listener. Exercise an open mind and let others explain. If someone mistakenly believes that you know more about this topic, just speak out frankly that your knowledge is limited and wish to make deeper comprehension about it.
3. Share Your Information
Being silent makes you look cold. When you ask others to make a share, remember to share yourself in the first place. It's a kind of method to build trust with others. He will feel special because you want to talk about your life with him.
4. Control Your Tone
Your voice should be gentle, peaceful and direct. Express your words clearly and reflect your voice. Make some practice that putting complimentary tone into the tape recorder and play them, then try to check whether the sounds sincere or not?