1. Try to Seem Special
Unless you always go to the bar alone, or sit in a fixed and conspicuous position every time for a long time, it’s difficult for someone to notice you. You can dress up a little special with sharp haircuts and flash clothes, wear beautiful hip dresses to show your cleavage and curve, or cosplay as your favorite stars, without a need to hide your age and occupation, so as to blow others’ mind and people who share your icons and tastes. You can dance passionately on the stage and let more people notice you.
2. Take the Initiative
Put your shyness and reserve aside and actively initiate eye contact with the person you fell in love with at first sight. Although this is a challenging move, it can allow him to read your thinking while also putting their thoughts to the test. You are expected to aggressively but gentlemanly invite seemingly single guests of the opposite sex to enjoy wine and food. Also you can suggest playing some interactive icebreaker games to liven up the environment, so that the strange you will feel no longer awkward, and you can show off your distinctive charm and caring so that the special person can notice you, while a little physical touch in the game can heighten the affair.
3. Leave on Time
You may have attracted individuals who silently like you when you are not aware of this; thus, you must always pay attention to your conduct and politely reject people you do not like so that those who will come to hit on you later know you are single. Prepare some information cards before going to the bar, write your basic information on the card and give it to your ideal pursuers. Having sex on the night of the first meeting may leave a bad impression on the other party. You can depart in time for him to ask you out again later if you want to keep the mystery.
Going to the bar to make friends is a very direct way. If you can naturally and generously show your strengths or views, you will be able to get the favor of the corresponding girls. But remember, be polite when you come forward to chat up. Don’t let the other party think you’re there to make a booty call.