1. Have a Good Mentality
It really matters to have a good mentality in pursuing love, because a good mindset comes with a great result. So how to achieve this? Here are two tips for your reference: be brave enough to express, in proper time, how you feel about the girl you have a crush on, and try to not be bothered by the thought that you may get refused and embarrassment will overwhelm you.
2. Have a Clear Self-awareness
You need to really understand who is really interested in you. Don't rush to express your feeling for a girl when she sends you a vague signal. This will only let the girl think that you lack the ability to control your emotion. Being willing to go out with you or expressing interest in you doesn’t mean that you attract her but she wants you to invest more time, energy and money for her.
One thing to keep in mind: it’s very easy to get into a romantic relationship, but difficult to actually have an intimate relationship. If you can get around this trap, you will be able to express your affection correctly. Otherwise, expressing your interest will only get in the way.
3. Take Useful Actions
The sense of humor, the right presentation, even the art of creating empathy, should be just a side product of the conversation you’re having on a date. It can polish your performance, but it’s not the most important part.
If you don’t have the ability to actually create opportunities of increasing intimacy in a conversation, you can’t really deepen relationship. Then at the end of the date, your relationship with the girl is still at a standstill. Therefore, you need take useful actions in order to boost your relationship.
The most important thing you need to learn is that how to express your feeling for her correctly without getting rejected. Notably, that’s a step-by-step process.