1.Avoid Keeping Asking Questions
In reality, some boys are prone to ask questions during the conversation, because they want to know the likes and dislikes of the girl on who they have a crush. Therefore, many people keep asking questions, trying to fully understand various experiences of a girl in a conversation, which will get girls bored. Even if they have some good feelings for you, the feelings will disappear because of your continous questions, and they will think you are an unromantic guy. Even worse, girls may block you directly.
2. Stop Labelling Others
It means that you shouldn’t put a label on others. Not only chatting with girls but any "labelling " in social situations may make people feel uncomfortable. In fact, people hate to be labelled by others before getting to know each other whether they are boys or girls. However, some straight men believe that a straightforward evaluation is a sign of masculinity.
3. Pay Attention to Your Chatting Content and Frequency
Before becoming her boyfriend, you must remember not to cross the line. Chatting tools are used to make invitations, and the purpose of chatting is to date because you cannot find true love by dint of the Internet. Meanwhile, you should focus on the frequency, and it should be in line with the current relationship between you. Do not expose your sense of need. Inappropriate chatting frequency may put pressure on girls.
4. keep an Eye on Emotions of the Other Party
You should not only understand the girl's literal meaning but also pay attention to her emotions and feelings when talking to her. If she sends signals to end up the conversation, you should stop talking as soon as possible. Otherwise, if you keep talking to her awkwardly, she will lose the interest in you.
5. In Search of "Interesting" Common Topics
Effective communication means that you should say something that can arouse girls' interest so as to receive timely and sound feedback. So it’s worth finding a common topic at all costs.
Instead of complaining about not knowing how to chat with girls, you should start to learn the methods we shared above from now. The stupidest thing is not to be stupid, but not to change. If you still think finding the perfect match depends on appearance and money, your life status will not change. Do not put yourself on the verge of failure, and you could have a different life as long as you are willing to make small changes!