1. Offer Topics Actively
The girl may want to chat with you sometimes but has to end the topic reluctantly for the lack of a proper topic. If you love her, don’t be a chatting terminator and learn to provide topics.
2. Prepare Favorable Chatting Atmosphere Before Dating
Some boys dash to the date invitation soon after meeting, driving the girl embarrassed. Since the girl is more sentimental, she won’t accept your invitation with no emotional fundament. Any negative reactions of you like anger and disappointment or even get mad at her due to the failed invitation are totally unacceptable. Because girls also want to date with boys on the premise that you have prepared favorable dating atmosphere.
Then how to prepare it? You shall become a man who can flirt, which means you can add a bit of ambiguity to your jokes. As you could flirt in a proper way to make an ambiguity atmosphere with her, she would even start to imagine about dating with you. That’s your chance to invite her.
3. Take the Lead During the Date
Many people date with girls with no idea and leave all the decision matters to the girl. It’s totally wrong to regard it as your consideration to girls. What is the consideration? You need to decide and take the responsibility even if you make a improper decision. If not, you are leaving the responsibility to the girl. No one could do perfect date so don’t be afraid of mistakes, at least a decision undue is better than a decision undone.
4. Be Proactive to Upgrade Your Relationship
It occurs that many boys dare not to take the girl’s hand though the dating atmosphere is appropriate, not to speak of any further action. In fact, girls are waiting for your movement as well at that occasion but they will never be active because they don’t want to leave you an image of casualness. So, boys need to take the risk to upgrade your relationship on their own.
After taking her hand, it’s alright that she refuses, and take it easy. It means that your relation is not that intimate or she is not prepared for it. When you continue the chatting as usual and try it a while later, it’s more likely to succeed.