1.Don’t Be Too Secretive on a First Date
In a relationship, women usually devote themselves more than men. Therefore, for women, trust is extremely important. They can not only have fun on a date but also have a chance to probe into men’s psychology.
2.Create New Memory
This is the best dating tip that I can give to you: to create wonderful memory, you need to seize the present moment.
People are likely to get into the trap of conversation, that is, to dig deeper while chatting, which will make your date out of control and dampen your enthusiasm. It happens especially when you ignore what is going on in the entire process of chatting.As a result, you need to slowly display your true feelings, which just like the same way you are getting to know her.
Moreover, you are supposed to keep active on a date. You are creating memory with her instead of sharing your memory. In any new relationship, it is vital to communicate, which is the way to break the barrier between you. However, before opening your heart, you need to give her sufficient reason to have the urge to know about you.
3.Don’t Be a Bore
A boring person has no charm at all, that is to say, a boring person can’t interest and impress others. They will drive you crazy so that all you want to do is get rid of them. You don’t want to be with them for just one minute.
You should focus your topic on her interest instead of yours. You may share with her some of your experience but don’t lay much emphasis on yourself. She will feel at ease and open her heart after she asks some questions about your life experience unconsciously.
4.Don’t Try to Be Yourself
Although the cliche about dating is to tell you to be yourself or pretend to be yourself. But all of this is just theoretically speaking and isn’t the best dating strategy. First date is not as average as your daily life. Therefore, it will be boring if you are still the way you are as usual. At this moment, some sparks are needed to turn her on. You are supposed to treat this date specially by doing something unique and unforgettable.
5. Calm Down After a Few Minutes’ Tension
It’s natural to be jumpy and clumsy at the beginning. But you can’t be like this all the time. You should take control of yourself and calm down.