1. Getting out of the Comfort Zone
The comfort zone refers to a place or a situation where you can do something bravely without being nervous. Once getting out of it, people may feel anxious. That’s the reason why introverted gay men find it difficult to date someone new, so they have no choice but to hang out with old friends. But if we can’t step out of our comfort zone, we can never grow and experience new challenges, let alone meet ideal partner.
You can get out of your comfort zone step by step. For example, meet someone at a place where you feel comfortable and relaxed. Besides, you could invite the other party to attend group gatherings together, so that your friends are able to prepare the warm-up games to enliven the atmosphere and fix you up.
2. Stopping Being Silent
I know it is challenging for introvert men to start a new conversation, but you’ll never get a chance to open up about yourself if you keep silent all the time. Dating someone is an exciting thing, and you can talk about anything like interests, work, friends, or something funny. There is no need to treat dating as an serious meeting, so just take it easy! You will have an enjoyable time together. Also, it is advisable to prepare some icebreaker topics.
3. Being Honest About What Kind of Person You Are Looking for
I know many introvert gay guys are too shy to express their true feelings for their dating mates. Even if the other person is far from who they have expected, they are not willing to admit the fact, which will only waste their time. So before the dating, you have to clearly know what you want, and then end the relationship in time if he is not the one you are looking for. Both of you could move on to next target to start a new dating journey.